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'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe title of the Beach Boys classic hit of the sixt=
ies, =91Heroes and Villains=92 might well been the catch phrase for fathers =
and men=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EOver the last thr=
ee decades, fathers and the patriarchal side of our society have been blamed=
 for every social evil under the sun=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
 </SPAN=3EMilitant feminists have lambasted all things male in the cause of =
female liberation, painting the father as the villain=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-s=
pacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIn my position as chief cook and bottle-washer =
at the Fatherhood Foundation, I am often asked to speak at men=92s gathering=
s and fatherhood seminars=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=
I took it upon myself to ask the question, =91How many men felt their role a=
s a man or father belittled by others around them=3F=94<SPAN style=3D'mso-sp=
acerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EAt one gathering the response was 80%, at anothe=
r 95%=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe wash up from th=
e societal change of the last few decades has been the unabated denigration =
of fatherhood and all things male=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 =
</SPAN=3EDr Warren Farrell, author of =91The Myth of Male Power=92, has docu=
mented the truth of these attitudes in his many books on gender reconciliati=
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<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe good news is that healthy change =
is occurring in our society today and there is a restoration of fatherhood t=
aking place=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThat change i=
s seen in media attitudes, movies and even in contemporary music; movies suc=
h as, =91I am Sam=92, =91Life is a House=92 and =91Finding Nemo=92 all have =
strong fatherhood themes=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=
We are even beginning to see change in government policy and general communi=
ty attitudes=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=A0 </SPAN=3EI was rec=
ently interviewed by the West Australian newspaper, which was going to do a =
feature containing several articles on fatherhood=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-space=
run: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ETen years ago this would never have happened=2E<SPA=
N style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDr Warren Farrell=92s comment i=
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t women=92s issues were to the late twentieth century=94, is coming to pass =
with breathtaking speed=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E<=
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PAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EOften in the midst of tragic =
situations their words touch the father=92s heart in all of us=2E<SPAN style=
=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ESuch was the case in a memorial servic=
e for one of the Sea King disaster heroes=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes=
'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ELeading Seaman Scott Bennet had two young boys=2E<SPAN styl=
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dana'=3E=93Hi dad, I=92m just drawing a picture and if you see the picture c=
rossed out, it was a mistake =2E =2E =2E I=92m not really good at drawing =2E=
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victims in Indonesia=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EAust=
ralia has lauded him as a hero, but for his children he always was a hero=2E=
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raw pictures for them, and tell them stories because you are your children=92=
s hero=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDon=92t wait for y=
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10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EWarwick Marsh=A0=A0has been married=A0to Aliso=
n for=A029 years=2E He is the father of five children, four boys and one gir=
l, ranging in age from 24 years to=A012 years=2E=A0 Warwick is a musician, s=
ongwriter, producer and public speaker who likes to think he can still laugh=
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'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templat=
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na' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau=
/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue138-18th April,2005=5Fyoung fa=
mily=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <P align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic =
Sans MS' color=3Ddarkmagenta size=3D4=3EWhen I was eight, I thought my Dad s=
hould have been President=2E He seemed that smart and that wise=2E When I wa=
s thirteen, I was pretty sure my father didn't know a thing=2E It seemed tha=
t every word out of his mouth was no=2E When I was twenty two, my mum died, =
and I saw the grief in my father's eyes=2E I saw a scared and lonely man=2E =
</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=3Ddark=
magenta size=3D4=3ENow at thirty-one I see a human being with all his idiosy=
ncrasies, and I love him more than ever=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E=
<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=3Ddarkmagenta=3E</FONT=3E=A0</P=3E<P alig=
n=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=3Ddarkmagenta=3EGerri</FONT=3E=
</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=3D#008080 size=3D=
5=3E</FONT=3E=A0</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' color=
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Reprinted from Fathers & Daughters by Jack & Jerry Schreur</FONT=3E</FONT=3E=
</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EB=
ack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</=
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578 height=3D12 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
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<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2E=
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onight is the start of the school holidays, I am allowed to pick up my son=2E=
<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EI feel extremely emotional =
about this because I know only too well what it feels like when these times =
come for men who are deprived the opportunity to spend time with their littl=
e ones=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIt took a court or=
der to get to this point=2E What a shame, what a shame on this society, that=
 in order to have a relationship with your child, you need to seek a court o=
rder if your ex-spouse is not willing to freely give you access=2E<o:p=3E</o=
:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0c=
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<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-=
FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EI am lucky in the sense that I went to c=
ourt over a male child=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDo=
 you know if it was a female child under the age of six my chances of overni=
ght contact are virtually nil=3F<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SP=
AN=3EI am somehow classed as a paedophile just because I have separated from=
 my wife and she decides I should not have contact=2E Yet if she happens to =
have a boyfriend, he is allowed more access to my children than me=2E<SPAN s=
tyle=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EAnd I have no idea of his backgrou=
nd=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D=
2=3EDo you know that I was put on a stand and asked, =93Sir, do you think it=
 inappropriate that your nine year old son sleeps with you=3F Do you find th=
at inappropriate Sir =3F=94 'Well no I don't <IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://w=
ww=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fdad=5Fson=5F2=
=2Ejpg' align=3Dright vspace=3D3 border=3D0=3Eyour Honor=2E<SPAN style=3D'ms=
o-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIf my son, climbs into bed with his dad in t=
he middle of the night because he is scared, because he loves his dad, becau=
se we are given a lousy 2 days every fortnight to have a father/son relation=
ship, because he wants a cuddle, than I'm guilty your Honor, because I love =
my son and he loves me=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Ver=
dana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EDo you readers understand that me, even talking abo=
ut this publicly can result in the withdrawal of my contact orders=2E<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm=
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</FONT=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm=
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men suiciding in this country at the rate of 5 a day=3F Yes that's 5 males a=
 DAY, 35 MALES A WEEK=2E Sure they are not all dads in distress, but you can=
 see why many are=2E We are publicised as angry dads, you can get an idea of=
 why men are angry=2E We are not even allowed to talk openly about what is h=
appening without the risk of losing what little contact we have, and that's =
supposed to be OK - Section 121 of the Family Law Act=2E Yes, I get my boy t=
onight and I have him for the first week of the holidays and you know I can'=
t wait=2E And when I cuddle him or when he climbs into my bed tonight, I'm g=
oing to rejoice, you see we have such a small window of opportunity when our=
 kids want to be with us and it is that opportunity that fathers worldwide a=
re fighting for=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlain=
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right=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E=
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e=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<B=3E<FONT color=3D#000099=3EA young boy had just<BR=
=3Egotten his driving permit=2E<BR=3EHe asked his father,<BR=3Ewho was a min=
ister,<BR=3Eif they could discuss his use<BR=3Eof the family car=2E</FONT=3E=
</B=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<IMG height=3D128 src=3D'http://www=2Edanggo=
odjokes=2Ecom/driving/laugh=2Egif' width=3D128 border=3D0=3E</P=3E<P align=3D=
center=3E<FONT color=3D#ff0000=3E<B=3EHis father said to him,<BR=3E'I'll mak=
e a deal with you=2E<BR=3EYou bring your grades up,<BR=3Estudy your bible a =
little,<BR=3Eand get your hair cut,<BR=3Ethen we will talk about it=2E'</B=3E=
</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<B=3E<FONT color=3D#000099=3EA month late=
r the boy came back<BR=3Eand again asked his father if<BR=3Ethey could discu=
ss his use of the car=2E</FONT=3E</B=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT color=
=3D#ff0000=3E<B=3EHis father said, 'Son,<BR=3EI'm real proud of you=2E<BR=3E=
You have brought your grades up,<BR=3Eyou've studied your bible diligently,<=
BR=3Ebut you didn't get a hair cut!'</B=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E=
<B=3E<FONT color=3D#000099=3EThe young man waited a moment<BR=3Eand replied,=
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ad long hair,<BR=3EMoses had long hair, Noah had long hair,<BR=3Eand even Je=
sus had long hair=2E'</FONT=3E </B=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT color=3D=
#ff0000=3E<B=3E=A0His father replied,<BR=3E'Yes son,<BR=3Eand they walked ev=
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div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=
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face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=
=3D'anchor5'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESpecial Feature</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdan=
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<STRONG=3EConference to discuss educational needs of boys</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E=
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ERRY O'BRIEN: In a complex debate over the way we're raising and educating c=
hildren these days, one pattern is inescapable=2E Boys dominate in all the w=
orst statistics - suicide, accident and imprisonment, just to name a few=2E =
Research is increasingly linking these health and social problems with poor =
education, and on almost every measure boys are doing worse than girls at sc=
hool=2E Reason enough for about 800 teachers, academics and researchers to m=
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ns=2E Among the research being announced at the conference is the story of a=
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l problems and truancy among its Year 7 boys=2E Natasha Johnson reports=2E<o=
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ATASHA JOHNSON: It looks likes after-school entertainment, but car racing is=
 a classroom assignment at <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EHunter</st1:PlaceNam=
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st=3D'on'=3EHigh School</st1:PlaceType=3E in <st1:City w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:pl=
ace w:st=3D'on'=3ENewcastle</st1:place=3E</st1:City=3E=2E The boys are inter=
ested=2E They're having fun, and they're behaving themselves=2E But it hasn'=
t always been the case here=2E Just 12 months ago, soaring rates of violence=
, truancy and suspensions brought the school to crisis point=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=
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ONT=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0c=
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, PRINCIPAL, <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EHUNTER</s=
t1:PlaceName=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3ESPORTS</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1:P=
laceType w:st=3D'on'=3EHIGH SCHOOL</st1:PlaceType=3E</st1:place=3E: While it=
 certainly wasn't a case where the playground was a war zone, it certainly w=
as intimidating for new people who came into the school=2E It was niggly=2E =
There was a lot of bullying, a lot of verbal harassment=2E We felt that that=
 was caused in a lot of ways by kids who were not being engaged by their lea=
rning=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText styl=
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ize=3D2=3ENATASHA JOHNSON: Principal Paul Tracey knew he had to take drastic=
 action but the results were astounding=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E=
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'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EPAUL TRACEY: Our suspension rate d=
own is down by some 30 per cent=2E Incidents of violence are down by nearly =
50 per cent=2E Attendance rate are up on average by 3=2E8 per cent, but with=
in the sevens and eights demographics by over 5 per cent=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E<=
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Located in one of the most socially and economically disadvantaged areas in =
the country, <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EHunter</s=
t1:PlaceName=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3ESports</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1:P=
laceType w:st=3D'on'=3EHigh School</st1:PlaceType=3E</st1:place=3E ranked be=
low the State average on every academic level=2E While it's a co-educational=
 school, students can study one of 11 sports alongside traditional subjects,=
 and that swelled the school population to two-thirds male, many of whom wer=
e bored and behaving badly=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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re are subtle differences between the way boys and girls like to learn, and =
if boys don't get to learn in the ways they like, then they're more likely t=
o disrupt, they're more likely to say, 'I've had enough of this, I'm out of =
here=2E' Deborah Hartman runs a program at the <st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1=
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=3D'on'=3ENewcastle</st1:PlaceName=3E</st1:place=3E which helps schools beco=
me more boy-friendly=2E She worked with <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3EHunter<=
/st1:PlaceName=3E <st1:PlaceName w:st=3D'on'=3ESports</st1:PlaceName=3E <st1=
:PlaceType w:st=3D'on'=3EHigh School</st1:PlaceType=3E on a program targeted=
 at its worst-performing students, Year 7 boys, and this week, she's trumpet=
ing the school's stunning success at the 'Working with Boys, Building Fine M=
en' conference in <st1:City w:st=3D'on'=3E<st1:place w:st=3D'on'=3EMelbourne=
</st1:place=3E</st1:City=3E=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P cla=
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LY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3EDEBORAH HARTMAN: In every boy, no matter how=
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'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3ENATASHA JOHNSON: While she attacke=
d the problem from many different angles, one key strategy was developing a =
different teaching style for boys and girls=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</SPA=
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ch more likely to want to be physical and active, and they're much more like=
ly to want to interact with other people, and they particularly don't like d=
oing the same thing over and over and over, like copying from the board or n=
otes or something like that=2E </FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div alig=
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erdana=3EYoung dads and their partners</FONT=3E</H1=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerd=
ana size=3D2=3EThe key to young men making a successful transition to father=
hood is the health of their relationship with their partner, finds a Bristol=
 University study=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EThe research team, which interviewed 92 wom=
en and 74 men in depth, found that it was the men=92s commitment to the wome=
n that sustained them through the difficult time as they became fathers=2E I=
f that relationship had already broken down early in pregnancy, the man was =
likely to have minimal or no contact with the child=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EThe study=
 quotes Mike=92s attitude as typical: =93Becoming a dad hasn=92t changed me =
much=2E That happened when I met Tracey=2E I would have become anything she =
wanted me to=2E=94 <BR=3E<BR=3EThe findings suggest that relationship suppor=
t and tackling the issues that undermine young couples =96 lack of independe=
nt housing, low incomes, over-bearing grandparents and unemployment=96 could=
 make a big difference to the long-term involvement of young fathers with th=
eir child=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EKeeping the couple under the same roof, thereby mai=
ntaining their relationship, usually bolsters father involvement, with men i=
n this situation spending more time with their babies=2E However, living und=
er the roof as grandparents sometimes undermined men=92s involvement with th=
eir children, possibly because the father became marginalized by the mother =
and grandmother in caring for the baby=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EThe study highlights t=
he case of a 17-year old couple, living next door to each other, who had bee=
n together for four years=2E The girl=92s mother wanted to look after the ba=
by, while the girl went to college=2E But the young unemployed father protes=
ted that he wanted to look after the child=2E Meanwhile, his own mother atte=
mpted to undermine his good intentions by 'banning' him from moving out of t=
heir home=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EPat Anderson, one of the research team explained: =93=
Eventually, the young father left home having managed to get a council house=
 for them=2E He knew that if the relationship was going to have a chance, th=
ey had to be together under their own roof=2E He told me 'I don=92t feel rea=
dy to leave home and set up together yet but I know I have to or her mum wil=
l just take over the baby'=2E The case highlighted a problem - that grandpar=
ents often focus on making sure that the baby is being cared for but do not =
give enough recognition to the importance of the couple relationship and fai=
l to see them as a new family=2E Perhaps, because the couple are young, they=
 conclude that supporting their relationship is not that important=2E In fac=
t we believe that it is vital=94 <BR=3E<BR=3ELast year=92s Prince=92s Trust =
study likewise reported both young mothers and fathers reporting tensions an=
d conflicts in their relationships with each other and their families=2E Bec=
oming parents had presented them with difficult issues at an age when relati=
onships are normally seen as fleeting and temporary=2E It called for more co=
uple support=2E <BR=3E<BR=3E</FONT=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=
=3EThe full report <EM=3EThe Transition to Fatherhood in Young Men</EM=3E by=
 David Quinton, Sue Pollock and Jean Golding is available on the ESRC databa=
se REGARD at=A0 <A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2E=
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g There, Young men should be committed, lends itself to serious scrutiny=2E =
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0=
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'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EHad Daniel been better informed about human behavio=
ur and the history of family structures (see link below), he may well have w=
ritten his thesis on Matriarchy and Why Young Wives Need to Stay Loyal and C=
ommitted=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=A0=A0 </SPAN=3E<o:p=3E</o=
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LY: Verdana'=3EDaniel=92s finger pointing at his =91uncommitted=92 male cont=
emporaries is way off target and does nothing to correct the destructive pow=
er imbalance between women and men and particularly between wives and their =
husbands=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoPlainText style=3D'M=
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PAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe reason so many fine young men are n=
ot committing to relationships is because they know they will have no =91say=
 in determining the structure of family life=92=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spaceru=
n: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EFathers with dependent children are completely at the=
 mercy of their wives and a hostile family law system=2E Paternal goodness i=
sn=92t factored in, and maleness is a liability=2E Consequently more than ha=
lf of all hitherto committed fathers end up redundant, role-less and poor=2E=
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niel=92s reasons for young men=92s lack of commitment are absurd=2E Few youn=
g men are afflicted with his =91Peter Pan=92 syndrome=2E The vast majority o=
f our young men are mature, decent, selfless, generous and intelligent=2E Mo=
st would prefer marriage and children to chronic singleness but you can hard=
ly blame them for baulking at marriage when the risk of their wives pulling =
the plug and turning them out on the street is so high=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
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na'=3EThe Howard Government hasn=92t helped young men either=2E Attorney-Gen=
eral Ruddock advised me in a letter dated 14 Feb 2005 that the Government ha=
s accepted the Parliamentary Committee=92s recommendation against a presumpt=
ion of shared custody=2E Thus there will be no effective changes to the Fami=
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<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EIn light of the recent Abbott/Donnell=
y/O=92Connor fiasco, men=92s groups are demanding the legal and human right =
for men and children to access DNA testing to establish paternity=2E It seem=
s reasonable because a man nominated by the mother must pay child support or=
 where married, raise the child as his own=2E Not surprising, all women=92s =
groups who contributed to the discussion on Australia Talks Back were veheme=
ntly opposed mainly because it =93would not be in the child=92s best interes=
ts=94=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
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na'=3EThe compromise, I hear, is yes the government will bring in legislatio=
n for the DNA testing of babies but it can only occur with the mother=92s co=
nsent=2E The logic of their DNA testing replete with the =91conditions apply=
=92 clause and their exclusion of separated fathers who can and want to cont=
inue sharing their parenting responsibilities on at least an equal basis wit=
h the children=92s mother, defies me=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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ick on the link below and read at least Chapter III: The Patriarchal System=2E=
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